How to Accept That Your Child is Gay, Lesbian or Bisexual

wikiHow is a “wiki,” similar to Wikipedia, which means that many of our articles are co-written by multiple authors. To create this article, 95 people, some anonymous, worked to edit and improve it over time. This article has been viewed 292,983 times. To accept that your child is homosexual or bisexual, the first and most important thing is to make sure your child knows that you love them. Focus on being non-judgmental and calm instead of accusatory, and let them know you’re proud of them for trusting you enough to tell you. Have an open dialogue where you both can express your questions and concerns. Also, remember that your child is still the same person you loved yesterday, and that you want them to feel comfortable enough to continue being true to themselves around you. Make an effort to learn more about sexuality and what it means to your child’s identity. If you’re still having troubles accepting your child’s sexuality, consider joining a group of parents in a similar situation, or seeing a counselor. Finally, try to help your child gain acceptance by other people in their lives by becoming their advocate to family and friends. For more information on how to talk your child after learning they are homosexual or bisexual, see below.